I'm sure I won't be able to put into adequate words the roller-coaster of emotions we are experiencing here as we prepare to leave in just over a week. But we'll do our best. Tomorrow we are actually moving out of our apartment and into the Berrys' house. We are trying to get everything packed into the luggage we will actually take (relatively little), while organizing all that we are leaving behind (the majority of the apt), to give away or sell. Last night Amanda gave us some great advice for Noah. We have been concerned about how he would take the move, especially leaving beloved items behind, since in the past he has been quite possessive. They said that in talking to other missionaries, they learned that kids living overseas often looked more fondly on their mobile childhood if they really understood what was going to happen, and were able to say proper goodbyes and even cry over it. We were tending towards trying to protect him from that and not fully see all he was leaving, but they reminded us that having true closure, though sad for a time, is better in the long run - even for a 3-year-old. Very good advice for us. So today we have been very open with him (as much as he can understand), and he is doing so well! He's even suggesting things to give away to his friends. We are thankful for such a sweet, generous little boy.
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Michael and Laura - Oh, how we understand and will be in prayer for you in these days. I am so thankful for the ministry and the team you have been a part of. Thankful for how Micah has grown and for little Ethan - a blessing for sure! We love you all in Christ and are praying for you in this transition - know you can call or come for a visit any ol time!!! John and Sue
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